Chow Chow

True Love

2011-01-14T07:53:00.000-08:00

The question is does true love exist. When does one experience it. I believe each of us can experience true love when we are innocent. Generally we are all innocent in our teens.. When you love someone then, you truly love that person. You don't think about the future or try to reason things in any manner. You are ready to do anything for that person.You just simply love that person. A lot of grownups tell what we experience in our adolescence is just infatuation and you experience true love when you are mature. I show all these people my finger because this is a flawed logic. When we get older, we become mature and wise. We reason out everything. By the time we are in our mid twenties, we have gone through quite a lot in life: success in academics/work, disappointments about missed opportunities, heartbreak(s). The effect of all these factors is that we filter out a potential partner based on what we have been through. Ofcourse that initial attraction is always required even before we segregate potential partners but what we feel then is not the same as what we do when we are innocent. Everytime you have a heartbreak, you become a stronger individual but a part of you dies with it. You move on, but you don't love someone the way you used to earlier. Some of us(the lucky ones) are still innocent at heart even when we age. So if you think you still have an innocent mind, then true love might be around the corner :)

Little things in life

2010-10-30T23:01:00.000-07:00

What makes life worth living?

Is it money, is it success or is it the joy of little things.

Well... for me its the little things. I have listed down things which I just cant forget..

1)Shouting patriotic slogans for a cause on a busy MG Road

2)Dancing like crazy for 5 hours non stop on my first outing to a disc which caused cramps in my fingers!

3)The first kiss... A total disaster

4)My helplessness at crushing on every good(seemingly effortless and graceful) dancer(gal) I come across every time

5)My(Neo) conversations with Trinity while in college.

6)My attempt to propose a fourth year senior in college while in first year.... I succeeded .

7)A night out with friends on Bangalore roads with cops chasing us.From a dhaba to The Leela to railway station!

8)Learning my first bboying move

9)Three days of non stop fun in Maldives

10)The thrill at getting flashing LEDs fitted to my bike

11) Sean Kingston concert in Hard Rock Cafe

12)Teaching tricks of fast arithmetic to my mentee in Mentor Together

13)Receiving a salsa cap as a memento from my first salsa teacher for being his best student

14)The attention I received when I wore my flashing t shirt for the first time.

15)Time spent in promoting our department fest while in college..especially in MCC

16)My attempt at modeling and the Ramp walk in ooty.. A life changing experience..

17)Learning to speak German

18)The breathtaking view of Mount Fuji from Hakone(its a place near Tokyo).

19)The joy in buying the most expensive shoe available in the shop.

20)Keeping a budget of 12k for a watch and finally ending up buying one for 21k

21)Conquering my fear of possible loneliness and my decision to live alone

22)Nightouts with friends in Diamond District

Women and me

2010-02-08T06:39:00.000-08:00

With some insight from blinky(Sushma), I have tried to analyse why I've not found the right girl yet. And I have answers!! I am a die hard romantic. I wear my heart on my sleeve. I am emotionally dependent. I've realized that I fall for women who are pretty and different . By different I mean talented, not conventional. Since these women have these qualities, they have enough on their plate already, they have a lot of fan following, they have a lot of options.They tend to be emotionally independent. This gives rise to a glaring mismatch and can cause her and me a lot of pain. So what do I do about it? I dont know. I cant change myself from being emotionally dependent nor can I fall for someone who is not pretty. These two factors are out of my control. Hence I can only try falling for someone who is not so talented... I guess.

Hoch poch

2009-03-12T06:37:00.000-07:00

hmmm.. I am not able to decide what do I write about. There is this huge sea of thoughts in my head right now. Where do I begin. How do I connect them? Are they issues or are they just thoughts. Is there a common solution which can untangle my mind so that I can think straight.What is the problem? Have I done anything wrong ,is it by chance, is it because I am supposed to learn something, carry forward some special message to my next life? What is it? Why this complication? Why can't I be in control? Why this quest for happiness, why dont I have a reset button. I am not asking for much. Is that the reason? Is this carrot being dangled to keep me ignorant. I am close but I am not finding the end or rather the beginning.I wonder if it is the same for all. Do I have to reach the end to get to the beginning.Do I cease to exist when I have found the answer. Why don't I have the courage for the only thing which matters to me? Is it some kind of a test?Or is it in my fate to forever look for the door. Will I ever find the reason if not the answer. Is it really this complicated or is my mind playing tricks with me. What do I do. Where do I find the angel who can guide me. Why cant life be simple!

My first experience at a film shoot

2009-02-04T23:47:00.000-08:00

I happened to be lucky enough to be one of the dancers for a song in the movie ' 3 idiots'. The whole experience was really very exciting and fascinating. Firstly let me tell that the crew of the movie was really friendly . People used to tell me that one can get exploited in the glamor line. After this experience I like to think otherwise. One of the assistant directors auditioned me for a small role. I didn't do it well or else I could have begun my career in bollywood! This shows that if one goes through the right channel and approaches the right people, one will get noticed provided one is talented enough.I was moving around a lot in the audition. One of the guys told me this was a negative point in my audition as it distracts the audience. The stylist is one more person who I will never forget. She looked very cute , dressed very well and she was damn sweet and caring. I was in complete awe of her. During practice, I saw Sharman Joshi for the first time. He looked better than how he looks on screen!! On the day of the shoot, I saw Aamir Khan. He really looked like a star. He was so fair and his skin was glowing like a star. It was fascinating to see how everytime he used to pump himself up to get into the mood few seconds before the recording began. In fact all three actors came up with such fantastic expressions within a matter of few seconds. Trust me , that is really difficult. As expected there were retakes but most of the retakes were because of problems with the camera angles. It was really interesting to look at all the fancy equipment they use and how they alter light so that they don't have a major problem while editing. I was called to the shoot only for a day. Nevertheless it was a memorable experience for me. I am dancing right next to one of the characters of the movie. Hopefully, I am visible onscreen when the movie is released.

My Bucket List

2008-12-12T05:46:00.000-08:00

1) Own a red Ferrari
2) Backpack across Europe
3) Become famous
4) Find my soul mate
5) Levitate
6) Make a career out of my passion for dance,movies,glamour
7) Keep my parents,sis & family happy
8) Become a Casanova for sometime at least
9) Contribute to the field of astronomy
10) Utilize my potential fully,stretch myself to the maximum

Movie Time

2008-09-08T07:00:00.000-07:00

I felt like compiling the list of english movies I've watched.So, here it is

Top 10 : No specific order
1)The Last Samurai
2)The Pursuit Of Happyness
3)My Sassy Girl
4)The Shawshank Redemption
5)Gladiator
6)Ace Ventura:When Nature Calls
7)Men Of Honour
8)Forrest Gump
9)A Beautiful Mind
10)Great Expectations

I've classified them year wise

2008
1)My Sassy Girl
2)The Forbidden Kingdom
3)Hancock
4)Iron Man
5)Kung Fu Panda
6)The Dark Night
7)Doomsday
8)
9)The Happening
10)Henry Poole Is Here
11)The Incredible Hulk
12)Jumper
13)Mongol
14)Sex And The City
15)Speed Racer
16)10,000 B.C.

2007
1)He Was A Quiet Man
2)The Bourne Ultimatum
3)Mama's Boy
4)Big Stan
5)I Now Pronounce You Chuck & Larry
6)Premonition
7)Rush Hour 3
8)Die Hard 4
9)Perfect Stranger
10)Resident Evil : Extinction
11)Stardust
12)Beowulf
13)A Mighty Heart
14)National Treasure:Book Of Secrets
15)Next
16)Ghost Rider
17)Wild Hogs
18)I Am Legend
20)The Pursuit Of Happyness
21)American Gangster
22)The Bucket List
23)Aliens vs Predator:Requiem
24)Becoming Jane
25)Bee Movie
26)Blind Dating
27)Bridge To Terabithia
28)Dragon Wars
29)Fantastic Four:Rise Of The Silver Surfer
30)Goal 2 : Living The Dream
31)The Golden Compass
32)Good Luck Chuck
33)Harry Potter And The Order Of The Phoenix
34)Hitman
35)Pirates Of The Caribbean : At World's End
36)Revolver
37)Shrek The Third
38)Spiderman 3
39)Surf's Up
40)300
41)Transformers
42)The Water Horse : Legend Of The Deep

2006
1)The Prestige
2)The Black Dahlia
3)Scoop
4)The Departed
5)Blood Diamond
6)My Super Ex-Girlfriend
7)Scary Movie 4
8)Click
9)Grandma's Boy
10)The Lake House
11)Night At The Museum
12)Happy Feet
13)Cars
14)Ultraviolet
15)Eragon
16)The Wicker Man
17)World Trade Center
18)The Fountain
19)X-Men : The Last Stand
20)Eight Below
21)Tokyo Drift
22)Dejavu
23)The Da Vinci Code
24)Superman Returns
25)10 Items Or Less
26)Mission Impossible 3
27)Letters From Iwo Jima
28)Annapolis
29)Apocalypto
30)Basic Instinct 2
31)Borat
32)The Break-Up
33)Casino Royale
34)Children Of Men
35)The Covenant
36)Date Movie
37)The Devil Wears Prada
38)District B13
39)Flags Of Our Fathers
40)Flyboys
41)Goal
42)The Guardian
43)Ice Age 2
44)John Tucker Must Die
45)Little Miss Sunshine
46)The Mistress Of Spices
47)The Namesake
48)The Omen
49)The Pink Panther
50)Pirates Of The Caribbean : Dead Man's Chest
51)She's The Man
52)Snakes On A Plane
53)Tristan & Isolde
54)Underworld:Evolution
55)V For Vendetta

2005
1)House Of Wax
2)The Island
3)Match Point
4)Sin City
5)In Her Shoes
6)Brokeback Mountain
7)Deuce Bigalow:Eurpean Gigolo
8)The Longest Yard
9)Herbie Fully Loaded
10)Robots
11)Madagascar
12)Wedding Crashers
13)Hostage
14)A Lot Like Love
15)Constantine
16)Thumbsucker
17)Aeon Flux
18)North Country
19)Hitch
20)Into The Blue
21)The Pacifier
22)Cinderella Man
23)Munich
24)Batman Begins
25)War Of The Worlds
26)Memoirs Of A Geisha
27)Bewitched
28)Cheaper By The Dozen 2
29)The Chronicles Of Narnia:The Lion,The Witch And The Wardrobe
30)Corpse Bride
31)Crash
32)D.E.B.S
33)Domino
34)Elektra
35)Fantastic Four
36)Flightplan
37)The 40-Year Old Virgin
38)Fun With Dick & Jane
39)Harry Potter & The Goblet Of Fire
40)Havoc
41)Jarhead
42)King Kong
43)Kung Fu Hustle
44)Little Manhattan
45)Monster-In-Law
46)The Ring Two
47)Sahara
48)Transporter 2

2004
1)The Girl Next Door
2)Jersey Girl
3)Eurotrip
4)Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind
5)Shrek 2
6)Around The World In 80 days
7)50 First Dates
8)Blade:Trinity
9)Crash
10)After The Sunset
11)Starsky & Hutch
12)The Big Bounce
13)Resident Evil:Apocalypse
14)Shark Tale
15)Taking Lives
16)National Treasure
17)Van Helsing
18)I,Robot
19)The Polar Express
20)The Terminal
21)Troy
22)Closer
23)Million Dollar Baby
24)The Butterfly Effect
25)Chasing Liberty
26)The Day After Tomorrow
27)Dodgeball
28)The Dreamers
29)Flight Of The Phoenix
30)Harry Potter & The Prisoner Of Azkaban
31)Hellboy
32)The Incredibles
33)Kill Bill 2
34)King Arthur
35)Mean Girls
36)The Motorcycle Diaries
37)Paparazzi
38)The Passion Of The Christ
39)Spiderman 2
40)13 Going On 30
41)Torque
42)The Village

2003
1)Love Actually
2)Paycheck
3)Daredevil
4)Bruce Almighty
5)Charlie's Angels:Full Throttle
6)Scary Movie 3
7)Shanghai Knights
8)The Medallion
9)Final Destination 2
10)The Matrix Revolutions
11)The Matrix Reloaded
12)The Animatrix
13)The Italian Job
14)X2
15)Bad Boys 2
16)2 Fast 2 Furious
17)S.W.A.T
18)Hulk
19)Finding Nemo
20)American Pie 3
21)Dreamcatcher
22)The Last Samurai
23)Anger Management
24)Bend It Like Beckham
25)Big Fish
26)Cheaper By The Dozen
27)Bad Santa
28)Freaky Friday
29)The Guru
30)Honey
31)How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days
32)Identity
33)Irreversible
34)Johny English
35)Kill Bill 1
36)The League Of Extraordinary Gentlemen
37)The Lord Of The Rings : The Return Of The King
38)Mystic River
39)Phone Booth
40)The Pirates Of The Caribbean : The Curse Of The Black Pearl
41)The Recruit
42)Shaolin Soccer
43)Terminator 3
44)Underworld

2002
1)40 Days And 40 Nights
2)Spirit:Stallion Of The Cimarron
3)Catch Me If You Can
4)Minority Report
5)The Sweetest Thing
6)The Hot Chick
7)Mr. Deeds
8)Die Another Day
9)The Tuxedo
10)Resident Evil
11)The Time Machine
12)Boat Trip
13)Men In Black 2
14)XXX
15)Road To Perdition
16)Sweet Home Alabama
17)The Count Of Monte Cristo
18)Frida
19)Ghost Ship
20)Harry Potter And The Chamber Of Secrets
21)Ice Age
22)The Lord Of The Rings : The Two Towers
23)Maid In Manhattan
24)My Big Fat Greek Wedding
25)Reign Of Fire
26)The Ring
27)The Scorpion King
28)Sex And Lucia
29)Signs
30)Solaris
31)Spiderman
32)The Transporter
33)Unfaithful

2001
1)Black Hawk Down
2)Pearl Harbor
3)Shrek
4)Scary Movie 1
5)The Animal
6)Behind Enemy Lines
7)Rush Hour 2
8)Shallow Hal
9)Training Day
10)Kate & Leopold
11)Swordfish
12)Jurassic Park 3
13)The Fast And The Furious
14)A Beautiful Mind
15)A Knight's Tale
16)Enemy At The Gates
17)American Pie 2
18)Along Came A Spider
19)Amelie
20)Hannibal
21)Harry Potter And The Sorcerer's Stone
22)Head Over Heals
23)The Lord Of The Rings : The Fellowship Of The Ring
24)Lost And Delirious
25)Monsters, Inc.
26)The Mummy Returns
27)Not Another Teen Movie
28)The Princess Diaries
29)Spy Kids
30)Sweet November
31)The Wedding Planner

2000
1)Me,Myself & Irene
2)Charlie's Angels
3)Scary Movie
4)Little Nicky
5)Meet The Parents
6)Shanghai Noon
7)Final Destination
8)Men Of Honour
9)Gone In Sixty Seconds
10)X-Men
11)Cast Away
12)Gladiator
13)Mission Impossible 2
14)The Beach
15)Bedazzled
16)Chicken Run
17)Coyote Ugly
18)Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon
19)Hollow Man
20)Malena
21)The Nutty Professor 2
22)102 Dalmations
23)The Patriot
24)The Road To El Dorado
25)Veritcal Limit
26)What Women Want
27)Woman On Top

1999
1)Deuce Bigalow:Male Gigolo
2)Big Daddy
3)The World Is Not Enough
4)The Thomas Crown Affair
5)Tomorrow Never Dies
6)Bicentennial Man
7)The Sixth Sense
8)The Matrix
9)Blue Streak
10)The Green Mile
11)Cruel Intentions
12)American Pie
13)American Beauty
14)Austin Powers:The Spy Who Shagged Me
15)Deep Blue Sea
16)End Of Days
17)Entrapment
18)Lake Placid
19)The Mummy
20)Notting Hill
21)October Sky
22)10 Things I Hate ABout You

1998
1)Armageddon
2)Saving Private Ryan
3)The Beach
4)The Truman Show
5)There's Something About Mary
6)Antz
7)Wild Things
8)Rush Hour
9)Who Am I
10)Mighty Joe Young
11)Great Expectations
12)Sliding Doors
13)City Of Angels
14)You've Got Mail
15)A Bug's Life
16)Deep Impact
17)Hard Rain
18)Babe: Pig In The City
19)Godzilla
20)I Still Know What You Did Last Summer
21)Life Is Beautiful
22)The Mask Of Zorro
23)Mulan
24)The Parent Trap
25)Small Soldiers
26)Species 2
27)Sphere

1997
1)Home Alone 3
2)Good Will Hunting
3)Titanic
4)Liar Liar
5)My Best Friend's Wedding
6)Speed 2
7)Flubber
8)Anaconda
9)The Fifth Element
10)The Devil's Advocate
11)Face Off
12)Con Air
13)Men In Black
14)L.A. Confidential

1996
1)Romeo + Juliet
2)Daylight
3)Mars Attacks!
4)The Rock
5)Phenomenon
6)Broken Arrow
7)Independence Day
8)Mission Impossible

1995
1)Ace Ventura:When Nature Calls
2)Batman Forever
3)Money Train
4)Golden Eye
5)Jumanji
6)Nine Months
7)Die Hard 3
8)Bad Boys
9)Crimson Tide
10)Apollo 13

1994
1)Dumb & Dumber
2)The Mask
3)Ace Ventura:Pet Detective
4)Speed
5)Blown Away
6)Forrest Gump
7)The Shawshank Redemption
8)The Next Karate Kid

1993
1)Demolition Man
2)Cliffhanger
3)The Thing Called Love
4)Mrs. Doubtfire
5)Philadelphia

1992
1)Poison Ivy
2)Home Alone 2

1991
1)Armour Of God 2

1990
1)Die Hard 2

1989
1)The Abyss

1988
1)Die Hard

1984
1)Cannonball Run 2

My Sassy Girl

2008-08-28T09:53:00.000-07:00

I just finished watching the movie - My Sassy Girl and what a beautiful movie it was.This was the most touching love story I've ever seen. It is about how blind love really is.There is nothing called right or wrong,fair or unfair. It's all love. This girl, she is so mean to him,she always passes out when they are together,she jeopardies his career,she always bosses around,only she decides whether they meet or not,only she decides where they meet and what they do. And this guy just loves her from the bottom of his heart. He never says no to her.He lives only when she's around.At this point , memories flash in front of my eyes.Wow.. is the movie about me?May be i'll get some answers.In the end he finds out that he reminded her of her love who was no longer in this world.She did all the things which they both used to do when he was alive.She felt bad that she was using him but there was too much pain inside her.She loved this guy but she was just not able to let go of her past.She felt happy reliving those moments she had with her love. This is not how the movie ends but what fascinated me the most was this situation life put them in.Both could see only love and love.Nothing else mattered.

Tagged

2008-07-25T05:42:00.000-07:00

I am: the only one of my kind
I think: a lot!.
I know: I will always remain young at heart.
I want: to possess a supernatural power
I have: tons of energy
I wish: I had the power to change the way life works
I hate: Nothing.. I don't like the word hate.. it has too much of negative energy
I miss: all the girls i've had a crush on
I fear: that one day I might die without having done all that I ever wanted to.
I feel: bored easily if I'm idle
I hear: ?
I smell: ?
I crave: for love
I search: for some unanswers
I wonder: when the tide will turn
I regret: about one thing. Not enough space to explain
I love: dance,ice-cream, shopping, movies
I ache: ?
I care: for everyone I consider a friend
I am not: who you think I am
I believe: everything happens for a reason though it may not seem fair at times
I dance: quite well
I sing: sometimes. I used to be quite ok at it
I cry: shhhh..secret
I don't always:
I fight: only with myself
I write: occasionally
I win: an argument
I lose: hope sometimes
I never: harm anyone
I always: think from my heart
I confuse: people around me
I listen: to all genres of music
I can usually be found: watching a movie, dancing , orkuting
I am scared: of ghosts, darkness, water,dogs
I need: a mentor,role model
I am happy about: ?
I imagine: that one fine day I become famous

What it takes to focus

2008-05-07T03:40:00.000-07:00

I am having a slight headache and feeling really sleepy. I couldn't concentrate properly in my German class as well. And why? Because I didnt sleep early last night inspite of knowing that I would probably be in this state if I didnt do so. I was watching this wonderful movie - The Guardian. It was too good to miss.. But actually if I think , life has always been like that. There is always something which is not in my scheme of plans but it appears too good to resist. How do I focus? How do I tell myself that I have to sacrifice something to achieve something bigger in life. I feel the ability to focus is what differentiates the highly successful people from the rest. My experience tells me that it is not enough if I am just talented. I need to have the focus to give my 100% at things which I am supposed to do. I need to realise that this is the first step towards fully utilizing my potential and perhaps figuring out my goal in life. I need to have shot term plans - say a one week plan and I should stick to it no matter what. I need to be able to say no to any kind of distraction. This experiment of focusing on my day to day life may not show instant results but eventually it will affect my life as a whole positively.

Happiness

2008-05-05T02:10:00.000-07:00

Life's been funny actually. I always thought that once I reach the state of happiness , I can then set out to fulfil my goals and perhaps figure out the purpose of my life. How does one define happiness? What makes me happy today may not matter to me tomorrow. My interactions with an anonymous friend has cleared this cloud of misconcepton which has been lingering over my head from many years. This state of happiness is an illusion. The desire for happiness is created by HIM( who?) so that we spend our energy in looking for it.Our thought provoking conversations(with the friend) has taught me a very important lesson - Stop Thinking and Start Doing. It may seem to be very trivial . I too always felt that I knew what this means. But it turns out that I didnt. There are innumerable things which I've always wanted to do in life but I was waiting for "Happiness" to get started on these. But this never happened and now I wonder what was the connection between the two? I had come across many people who always kept themselves busy by taking part in some or the other activity. I used to think that this is a sign of weakness, it is not right to keep oneself busy just to have a clear mind, one should do things for the love of it. But I was wrong in my thinking. Does one need to be happy to figure out his purpose in life? How can one be happy before one does the things which give him happiness!!(paradox eh?) Im so glad that I've finally set out on my journey and I'm loving it so far. Managing so many things in parallel (things I love) is giving me so much pleasure. My thinking has broadened and it is having a positive impact on my life. There is a long list of things to be done and I'm really excited about it. I've never been happier in my life

A Hopeless Romantic

2008-02-20T22:52:00.000-08:00

I don't know how to approach you,
I don't know how to impress you,
I don't know how can I talk to you like a friend,
I don't know how to play games,
I don't know why I act stupid in front of you,
I don't know how to not think about you.
But
I do know how to compliment you,
I do know time flies when you are around,
I do know only you are visible to me when you are around,
I do know I can sit next to you all day and not speak a word,
I do know I will do anything for you,
I do know I can sacrifice my dreams for you,
I do know you will not notice me,
I do know I will only think and not do anything about it.
But
I do know I can live without you,
I do know I can fall in love again,
I do know I'll love your forever,
I do know I'll never stop caring for you.
I don't know why I don't give up.
I dont know why I always wish... if only you knew...

Love & Relationship

2007-12-17T08:47:00.000-08:00

The lights are dim,soothing music playing in the background with the cool air of the ac giving one shivers, lots of whispers and other 'noises' in the background....... Dirtymind :P this is the scene I get to see every week in a theatre before the movie starts. Week after week I see hundreds of couples, some totally lost in each other, some being just good friends, some wondering if they are with the right person and some with a grumpy face because they didnt want to watch the movie in the first place.
Inspite of the wide spectrum of feelings among the couples, the fact is that there is force which binds them .Is it love ? Its such an explicable feeling is love.I dont think anybody can decipher love.You dont know why you like her yet you always think of her. I feel people take too much liberty with the word love. Ultimately we humans are self centered. We all wish there is someone special for us. It is this desire for a companion that binds couples.
Wow, as I write , I am able to explain things which I too didnt understand or had not thought of! Some people say love is all about understanding a beautiful soul and looks dont matter but I beg to differ. Love is a blissful feeling of attraction towards something that is beautiful to your soul. Thats all is love. What is beautiful differs from soul to soul.Some souls get attracted to her looks and some to her nature. What matters here is the attraction and not the cause for it. After this you start liking everything about her and this is love.Later even if she changes (her nature or looks), it doesnt matter because everytime you think of her, you relive the the feeling when you first fell in love with her.This is love : pure and simple.
What complicates matters is the human desire to possess something which is beautiful. And this attempt to gain possession can lead to a painful experience. If we dont achieve what we desire we are heartbroken. Once we possess something we desired , another human quality which comes into picture is greed . We feel satisfied at our accomplishment and eventually get bored of it and aim at something 'better'.
Relationships sustain because of various reasons. One is just the love for each other. Second is that you are possessive and hence you cannot imagine a life without her. So you learn to adjust and sacrifice and compliment each other. Third is that you have put in a lot of effort to get into a relation and hence you dont want to let go of it as you feel you will have to struggle again to find someone else.And lastly some people are relationship clings who just cant live alone. They always need someone to be there for them.
One major question which comes in mind is if love is a true feeling why do some of us cheat her or take advantage of her feelings for us.The answer to this is simple. It all depends on how good a person you are. As a relationship builds there is a fusion of love and conscience . How much you love depends on how good you are at understanding people and how much you care for their feelings.If you have these qualities, your conscience blends with love and becomes a stronger feeling which leads to this state called 'Devotion'.If you dont have these qualities, then love may not be enough to sustain the relationship.
'Anyone can fall in love but Devotion is something above lesser mortals'

Dance Explicated

2007-11-28T21:35:00.000-08:00

Dance is a means to connect with your soul. When there is fusion of delectable music and an eye catching dance move, the pleasure one receives just fills the whole body. One can actually feel the energy soaring on the inside. I can compare it to an aura which is blinding people around or the first rays of the rising sun when it is in between two mountains.The more you practice the better you get at it. And the joy is directly proportional to how well you dance. I've realized that a true dancer doesn't dance well for the accolades he gets but just for the pleasure of dancing well.
Dance is also indicative of people's personality. There are different kinds of people in this world but they all seem to connect when on a dance floor. The way a person talks is dependent on the people he interacts with , the way he is brought up and his social circle. The way you are when on a dance floor is what you truly are because you dance from your soul which is not bound by any worldly matter.
In partner dancing you also learn how to behave with ,treat the opposite gender. You end up becoming a better person :)

One always has a choice

2007-11-11T04:59:00.000-08:00

Ever heard of people cribbing that they have too much work and hence dont have a social life? Everytime I hear this it makes me laugh . But ofcourse I do it on the inside only! You keep hearing people say that you alone are responsible for your fate and yet they dont realize its not the work which is hampering their social life . Instead it is the greed for money(more work=>better appraisal) which is the culprit. One always has a choice to maintaining a healthy balance between work and personal life. Yes it may mean that you may not be the performer of the quarter but then who cares! You should realize that there will always be some work pending. There is no point in sacrificing your personal life for something which doesnt have an end.

Hope?

2007-11-04T21:32:00.000-08:00

Hope-Something to live for,
Something worth fighting for.
Does become cliched at times,
The meaning not clearly understood!
One ought to ask-If
hope is something worth living for,
What is it that gives hope.
These are the little moments in life
When one gets the utmost joy.
When one feels within -
Ah!This is life!
When the going gets tough,
Time slows down.The axe of
life gunning for your head.
At this moment, the most treasured moment
flashes in front of one's eyes.
Giving one a reason to live for,
To escape from the claws of the monster within.
Hence,appreciate those precious moments
For they will save you time and again.
Remember,nothing glorious about fighting till death
Because the best part about life is life itself!

Online friends

2007-11-03T00:06:00.000-07:00

Making friends with strangers on net is certainly not the same as meeting someone new. No matter how much you get to know about the other person , he/she ends up being just an email id to you. For example, you happen to come across someone new in say a social gathering. All you do is just smile at that person once. But still you feel like you can trust that person. Compare this to an online friend with whom you have shared thoughts for a few months. You still wouldn't feel comfortable disclosing your contact details or meeting that person! I am not here to say what is right and what is not. Its just something to think about. I feel trust is more dependant on your instincts rather than the time you spend getting to know the other person.
Moreover the quest for a friend online is just an illusion . You always feel that one more try and you re there . But that never happens. One could always blame the few imposters who have misused the anonymity which is available. But I still feel there is hope.
If you ask me what the solution is , I would say dont wait for months to gain a persons trust. You just trust your instincts and ask the person if u re more than just a email id ! If the other person doesnt trust you then , its not going to change in the future also. So you have to just move on and the cycle continues :)